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Conversations: Online Realities - A New Level of Entitlement

Today checking my inbox on a notorious hookup website I found a gem of a reply from a 58-year-old man ( usually you need to add at least 5 years to that ).

A chaser, (admirer, sex fiend, insert whichever fits best) who fed up with my non-committing answers to his admirably persistent requests to hook up with me had the time of his life insulting me venomously. See image below:

While I can't stop him from using such endearing words and or change his lovely opinions of me,  unfortunately, I do not possess any wizened abilities despite being a "fat fag hag", I can, however, thank him for making me think about how sad we must have become to feel any entitlement or expectations when searching for intimacy or anything of interactive/social nature with other human beings ( are we still humans?). In my reply to him, see the above snapshot, I was tamed only because I was in an extraordinary calm state after a fairly broken night's sleep.  His written harsh and violently offensive reaction is something that I have experienced before with certain men. Fortunately, this one happened through an email, and will not be followed by the physical violence I have been a victim of with some other frustrated men incapable to release their sexual needs. 

I am glad that I have become more scrupulous in selecting dates, taking a bit of time usually brings out the true nature of people.

 

2 comments

  • Gaby, I’m so sorry you had to deal with this. Nobody should have to endure this or any physical violence either. I will never understand why people feel they have the right or entitlement. Most of all he is absolutely wrong, you are nothing but a beautiful woman.

    Kitty
  • I’m sorry this happened to you. None of what he said about you is true and I hope your next encounter is a better one. But please don’t tone police yourself, Guys like him deserve to hear some appropriate words and a few inappropriate ones too for good measure.

    XoXo

    Nadine ❤️

    Nadine

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