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First Meeting

Last night with a bit of trepidation I went to my first meeting organized by a local Trans support group. I had been looking forward to meeting with them for a long while.

The place was very interesting, an old building in a very beautiful area of Providence. It was a small group that showed up, possibly because of the not so great weather conditions. It was comprised of both Transwomen and Transmen. Different age groups were observed but not felt, which is always a great feeling. The conversations were very interesting and engaging. After the dreaded self-introduction, I am not good at public speaking, I barely passed my class in college, I was able to listen and share my thoughts and views in an attempt to be helpful somehow and to show that I can be an active voice.

I highly recommend everyone, whether you are Trans or not, to experience and join a similar group. In this age of social media apps, the in-person interactivity is becoming more and more difficult to find resulting in real-life social atrophy with false freedoms and absurd entitlements by virtue of being protected and hidden behind firewalls. We have become so used to that "it is easier that way" approach, that we are missing out on so much richer and rewarding real p2p experiences. 

Overall it was absolutely great to be part of it.

Afterwards, a bunch of us went out to grab a bite to eat together. Which was a very nice idea. Added bonus I found my beloved doctor dining out there.

She along with my therapist are the persons that changed my life for the better, allowing me to be finally me. Regardless of the struggles and difficulties that may be ahead, I will forever be grateful to them.

 

1 comment

  • Yes, digital media should be a facilitator of human interaction, not a substitute. Sigh… I feel kind of guilty about that.

    But I actually wanted to reply to another point, in a previous post you wrote about self acceptance and love but also embrace the self agency too. So, as much as you can and should be grateful for the help you get from your doc and therapist; keep in mind that it’s not them who changed your life – that was you yourself. 😘

    Xoxo
    Nadine

    Nadine

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