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  • Going Out 2020

    Sometimes, most of the times, it feels like a perverse self inflicting search for the impossible, a quick gratification that wants to be oblivious ...
  • Choice?

    A choice is to come out and tell about yourself. That choice can be liberating but extremely consuming. Being yourself and living as who you are, a...
  • Online Dating Q&A

    Q: Are there better dating apps? A: they are all the same, filth finds a way to creep in everywhere. Lots of trash to deal with.
  • It's Pride

    There are a million better writings about Pride that are more significant and historically accurate than I could ever attempt to write about. But, ...
  • Visually is Difficult

    I have been very fortunate overall throughout my outing as the Trans woman that I am. Most of my friends have been very understanding in their own ...
  • A Question of Clarity

    I look at things in the darkness for clarity, but all I get is creative possibilities. Some may feel and look so real but, unfortunately, they are ...
  • Negativity

    The hardest part is to start with a positive vibe and keep away from societal stigmas.
  • Love Prevails

    My coming out to friends and family is nearly completed and I am overwhelmed and mentally exhausted. The range of emotions felt, received, and proc...
  • The Pandemic and Alcohol Infused Considerations

    I am writing this post in a blissful state as a result of delicious grilled steak and a superb brew. I will try to be as coherent as the dark nect...
  • 2019

    On the eve of the next decade, it seems appropriate to do a quick look back at one of the most important and defining years of my life. Where to be...
  • Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDoR) 11/20/2020

    Today is Transgender Day of Remembrance. I have attended once again the Service held by the kind folks of TGI network of Rhode Island. Unfortunatel...