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  • Best of All Worlds

    Swiping up and down my feed I found a post from someone I know (via social media and other dating apps) who stated how happy she was to be loved by...
  • Before I Forget to Be in Love

    Towards the end of my relationship with someone I loved and still love as a dear friend, I was posed the most dreaded question: "are you in love wi...
  • Should I Share or Should I Not

    A fb post that I read today asked:  "Do you think there are some parts of your Trans experience that you just shouldn’t share with a large number o...
  • Friend

    Sometimes I struggle with words, their meanings and proper use. Sometimes I want them to have just one universal definition and not multiple ones. ...
  • Love, Regardless

    One of the most touching and satisfying experiences is when intelligent people show their love and support regardless of themselves. Thank you, my ...
  • Vivid Dream

    I just woke up from a very vivid and realistic dream: I was coming out to my parents and my father surprised me with being happy for me. Then there...
  • More or Less Trans?

    Today, on my Facebook timeline someone posted one of those categorical statements similar to this: "Not being on HRT and or not having surgeries do...
  • First Ever Job Interview

    First-ever job-related interview (VIDEO) as me today. Regardless of the outcome, I felt NO fear and I was more determined than ever.Real freedom is...
  • Transgender Day of Visibility 03/31/2020

    Happy Transgender Day of Visibility!!   This day means a lot to me because I am a strong believer in being visible, even if in some circumsta...
  • A Public Personal Apology

    It takes a really good friend to point out something that I am doing wrong, or, that at least has some potentially negative implications for myself...
  • Happy One Year Anniversary!

    Today marks my one full year of being on HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy). It seems yesterday that I finally went to see my therapist and then my ...
  • The Effort That Goes a Long Way - Dead Name and Pronouns

    I am so sorry that some of my best friends are having difficulties in addressing me with my female name and appropriate gender pronouns, she, her a...